10 Signs You’re Raised By A Strong Mom
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Diane Koopman
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Quick Summary
總結
1. She always encourages you to speak your mind
1、她總是鼓勵你說出你的想法。
2. She doesn’t tell you what to think, but how to think
2、她并不告訴你思考什么，但告訴你怎樣思考。
3. She tells you how important education is, no matter you’re a boy or girl
3、不管你是男孩還是女孩，她都告訴你教育的重要性。
4. She teaches you to be your own competitor
4、她教你做你自己的競爭者。
5. She values financial independency
5、她重視財務獨立。
6. She gives you the confidence and self assurance to be who you want to be
6、她給你自信并確信自己能成為想成為的人。
7. She teaches you empathy
7、她教會你同情心。
8. She shows you how to bring people together
8、她秀給你看怎樣把人們集合在一起。
9. She shows you how to be fiercely independent
9、她秀給你看怎樣是非常地獨立。
10. She tells you either to surrender or to change it
10、她告訴你要么屈服要么改變。
A strong mom isn’t only strong on herself. She makes you strong as well, and even stronger than herself. They don’t teach you what the society teaches you. They teach you to be yourself and go for what you want. Without them, you won’t be at where you are today.
堅強的媽媽不僅是她自己堅強，她也能使你變得堅強，甚至更勝于她。她們并不教給你社會要教你的東西，她們教你如何做自己，并且去追求自己想要的東西。沒有這些堅強的媽媽，你不會成為今天這個樣子。
Here are 10 signs you’re raised by a strong mom:
這就講一講你被一個堅強的媽媽撫養長大的10個標志:
1. She always encourages you to speak your mind
她總是鼓勵你說出你的想法
A strong mom is honest and forthright. She teaches her children to be the same. Communication is valued and necessary in order to get her message across. You use your words and are in touch with your thoughts and feelings when you grow up with a strong mom.
堅強的媽媽，誠實而率直，她教導孩子也是這樣。她重視溝通并認為這很必要，是為了能夠讓孩子充分表達自己，所以當你和堅強媽媽一起長大，你就可以用自己的語言，聯系自己的思想和情感表達出來。
2. She doesn’t tell you what to think, but how to think
她并不告訴你思考什么，但告訴你怎么思考
You don’t just memorize what you read or learn, you think about it and form your own opinion. A strong mom doesn’t tell her child what to think, she teaches them how to think. You are an expert at gathering information from a variety of sources and you evaluate the information and come to your own conclusion. You are willing to learn and change your mind and aren’t afraid to ask questions. You are willing to be wrong sometimes and even to fail. It is how you learn.
你也許不記得你讀的和學的東西，但可以想到并構成你自己的觀念。堅強的媽媽不告訴孩子思考什么，而是教會他們怎么思考。對于在多種資源中搜集信息，你已經是專家了，以評估這些信息，并且得出自己的結論。你愿意學習并改變自己的思想，而且你不懼怕提出問題，有時你也愿意出錯，甚至是失敗，這才教會你怎么學。
3. She tells you how important education is, no matter you’re a boy or girl
不管你是男孩還是女孩，她都告訴你，教育是多么重要。
A strong mom knows the importance of education. Without it we’ll end up like a blank paper with little to offer. And strong moms know that education isn’t just about going to an expensive school or getting good grades; it’s about paying attention, asking questions, reading and expressing yourself through strong literacy.
堅強的媽媽，懂得教育的重要性，沒有教育，我們就像一張白紙一樣，空無一物。堅強的媽媽知道教育并不是去昂貴的學校或者得到好分數，而是集中注意力，提出問題，閱讀，并通過強大的語言文字表達你自己。
4. She teaches you to be your own competitor
她教你成為自己的競爭者
Your mom has shown you by example that if you work hard and try your best, the results would be rewarding. No matter how many times you face obstacles and how often you find adversity, you keep going. Your main competitor is yourself and above all else, a strong mom wants you to be self reliant.
你媽媽舉例子給你看，如果你努力學習，或者盡力，結果總會褒獎。不管你多少次面臨障礙，多少次發現逆境，你仍然繼續向前。你的對手就是你自己，尤其是，堅強的媽媽要你信賴自己。
5. She values financial independency
她重視財務獨立
Being independent and self sufficient is a key trait of a strong mom and she instills this in her children. She will teach you to work hard and manage your own finances and affairs. In order to survive you need to achieve financial autonomy. As well as making your own money and not having to be co dependent, she will teach you how to cook and clean after yourself, how to look after your health and how to have valuable and strong relationships.
獨立，自足是堅強的媽媽的主要特征，他也會把這個理念逐步灌輸給孩子。她會教你努力工作，并管理好自己的財務事項。為了生存，你必須取得財務的自主權，不僅要自己賺錢，并且不必成為依賴的人，她還教會你怎樣自己做飯，清潔打掃，怎樣照顧好自己的健康，以及建立有價值的，積極的親密關系。
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