I‘m kind, open and sometimes insecure. I like who I am and have no intention of becoming someone different because of narcissists. Narcissists don’t respect boundaries and so having them isn’t protection. If they are covert and get inside, they will destroy your boundaries. The only boundary that works with them is no involvement and no contact.
Self love isn’t? protection either. They demolish that if too if they get in. I have a few good friends who love me when I’m doing well, when I’m in my deepest despair and i don’t have to feel worthy or love myself to earn this.
They just love me. I can disbelief them, push them away, have no boundaries and no self love.They don’t hurt me even when they could.
They are healthy and not predatory.
Other people’s behavior has very little to do with me. How I treat them has very little to do with them.
My protection is being able to discern the predators from the normal people and quickly kick the predators to the curb.
我善良，開放，有時有不安全感。?我喜歡我是誰，也不想因為自戀者而變成不同的人。?自戀者不尊重邊界，所以擁有它們不是保護。?如果他們隱蔽起來，進入內部，他們會破壞你的界限。?與他們合作的唯一的邊界是沒有參與和沒有聯系。
自愛也不是保護。?如果他們進來的話，它也會被拆除。我有幾個好朋友在我做得很好的時候愛我，當我陷入絕望的時候，我不必覺得自己有價值，或者愛自己去賺取。
他們只是愛我。?我可以不相信他們，把他們推開，沒有界限，也沒有自己的愛。即使他們能夠，他們也不會傷害我。
他們是健康的，而不是掠奪性的。
其他人的行為與我很少有關系。?我如何對待他們與他們很少有關系。
我的保護能夠辨別正常人的掠食者，并迅速將掠食者趕到路邊。
