當一件事情已經讓你低到塵埃,讓你覺得狼狽不堪,卑微輕賤,我要告訴你的是,不是堅持撐下去,而是干脆利落的放掉。就像勸一個被家暴的婦女一樣,這個時候我們不應該勸合不勸離,有時候放手可能是最好的結果,你無法強迫一個不愿意將就的人去將就一件他從頭到尾都抗拒的事情,哪怕這個人在窘境里,他也是有著自己最底線的堅持。
When a thing has made you low to the dust, let you feel is astonishing, humble and worthless, I want to tell you, not to survive, but neat. As advised a is domestic violence as a woman, this time we should not advised to match not told to leave, sometimes to let go is probably for the best, and you can't force a reluctant to compromise to accommodate a he from beginning to end all resist things, even if the person in a dilemma, he also has a stick to their bottom line.
當以后的我自己想到目前自己現在的經歷,我一定會告訴自己不要在死撐,根本沒有意義,沒有任何意義的堅持到底最終只是浪費時間而已。
When I think of the current experience of my own, I will tell myself not to be dead, there is no sense, no sense of persistence in the end only a waste of time.
在每一次的選擇中,我覺得有一些讓我覺得很懊悔的,但更多的是甘愿。而你本就覺得不愿意去甘愿的時候,我覺得你真的沒有必要堅持,成功的人絕對不是麻木的堅持。
沒有必要的堅持,你越趁早放手就越顯得你機智,沒什么大不了,你放手的不過是你看不上的工作,而你堅持只會是你浪費時間與青春廉價的為不知道的哪些你不大喜歡的人賣命而已,你大可不必堅持。
真正的高明并不是盲目堅持。
我沒有找到更好的,但我可以成全自己想要的。忍可能一時風平浪靜,退一步還可能變本加厲呢。